Sachiniti

March 16, 2006

Are Women To Blame For Rape?

Filed under: opinions,Random,Suicides murder women,This Gets To Me — Kaveeta Oberoi Kaul @ 10:50 am
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Happened to read a most disturbing piece reported in BBC.

Women ‘get blame for being raped’
Distressed woman
Fewer than 6% of reported rapes result in a conviction
A third of people believe a woman is partially or completely responsible for being raped if she has behaved flirtatiously, a survey suggests.)
The Amnesty International poll of 1,000 people also found over 25% believe she is at least partly to blame if she has worn revealing clothing or been drunk.

Amnesty says the “shocking” findings show government policies are failing.
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And the director of public prosecutions told the BBC the report “highlights some areas of real concern”.

Ken Macdonald QC, who is in charge of prosecutions in England and Wales, spoke to BBC Radio 4’s Woman’s Hour.

“The idea that a third of our people think that if a woman flirts she has only herself to blame if she is raped is, I think, quite shocking,” he said.

“These are jury trials. The jury is the community in the courtroom and it is reasonable to suppose the jury brings into the courtroom a lot of the attitudes we have been reading about.”

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Nothing can be traced back to male unreasonability when it comes to battle between the sexes. (more…)

March 9, 2006

Look Up

Filed under: opinions,Random — Kaveeta Oberoi Kaul @ 11:00 am
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Went and bought the Eve Ensler’s the Good Body.. a book I recommend to all women..
The following passage caught my attention.. it is what Priya and Indian lady tells Eve Ensler: “I think you only know one country – a little country, your body with a population of one. You spend all your time fixing and renovating it. You’re missing the rest of the world. You need to look up, you need to look out..”

Come to think of it, this does not apply simply to our physical body but has almost become a way of life in our times.. time we looked up and out…

PS: one almost felt a great a beginning was made in the right direction with the outrage against the jessica lal verdict till one heard of the varanasi blasts.. but then let us hope that civil society will take on this head on and not be swayed by vested interests..

Anouradha Bakshi

March 7, 2006

Eve Teasing..A Three Pronged Attack-Blank Noise Project

Filed under: Of men women and Eunuchs,opinions,This Gets To Me — Kaveeta Oberoi Kaul @ 11:27 am
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This morning the topmost item on the agenda was to write on the topic as promised. Sheer force of habit led me to the papers. The following headlines caught my eye’Eve teaser shoots at lawyer trying to save kin’. This occurrence , that too , today of all days, when a marathon is in progress, a blog a thon against it.

Apparently, the said lawyer ‘Meher Bhargava’ acted in retaliation to four hooligans who (more…)

March 5, 2006

Monday Musings

Filed under: Chicken Soup For The Soul,opinions — Kaveeta Oberoi Kaul @ 1:26 pm
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You have your way. I have my way. As for the rightway, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist.
Friedrich Nietzsche

What strikes one immediately on reading the above quote is a feeling of peace and harmony. In the absence of ‘no right way’ the futility of losing ones peace of mind over trivialities seems pointless.

Balance is the key issue in life. Give some take some. Rigidity of stance and ideas, is detrimental not only to the individual concerned, but to his immediate environment, his family, colleagues, society and country.

Flip side.. imagine it being the mantra of the Charles Sobhrajs or modern day Hitlers.. Dynamite!!

Human mind can rationalise its actions and use even the scriptures and its interpretations to validate its compulsions, however erroneous and evil. It then transforms into fodder to egg them on to continue their barbarities, all the while feeling content and smug in the reasonability of their deeds, since ‘no way is the right way’… whew!

March 4, 2006

For the record..

Filed under: Just For Laughs,opinions — Kaveeta Oberoi Kaul @ 4:50 pm
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“Only one man in a thousand is a leader of men, the other 999 follow women

“Women represent the triumph of matter over mind, just as men represent the triumph of mind over morals

“Women always worry about the things that men forget; men always worry about the things women remember

“Sure God created man before woman, but then again you always make a rough draft before creating the final masterpiece

“Before marriage a man yearns for a woman. Afterward the y is silent.”

“A wise woman puts a grain of sugar into everything she says to a man, and takes a grain of salt with everything he says to her

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Hubbys reaction ‘Men are not always silent , but they know when to be’.

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