Sachiniti

September 22, 2006

In Memoriam-Shraadha

Lifes most memorable moments are often those spent in the company of a dear one who has imperceptibly left an indelible mark in our journey. When they are snatched away by death”s steely clasp, we are left behind to mourn and grieve, not just for their death but what died within us in ther loss.

Whilst tainting every joyous occasion with suffering in remembrance is not advisable, our sages therefore in their wisdom, appointed a certain time of the year to honour them. This period of 16 days which ended today, is known as ‘Shraadh’ or Pitrapaksh” . It is recommended that new ventures, business, or clothing not be bought during the length of Shraadha. (more…)

July 22, 2006

Marriage: Coming Of Age?

Filed under: marriage,Most Read,Random,Relationships — Kaveeta Oberoi Kaul @ 1:24 pm
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If the steady reports depicting bigamy, adultery , are anything to go by then it does seem as if marriage has lost its sheen. More than marriage , loyalty, committment and polygamy seem like ‘yawn’ inducing terms. Slowly but steadily, inching forward, is the concept of an ‘open marriage’ whatever that means. (more…)

May 25, 2006

And They Lived Happily N-ever After

Filed under: marriage,opinions,Random,Relationships — Kaveeta Oberoi Kaul @ 2:54 pm
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Hardly the kind of post expected after a vacation.. I agree.

A chance meeting with a close friend,surviving the trauma of a broken relationship, triggered off this most disconcerting affirmation. If there is one sphere of modern life which has witnessed such huge fluctuations in intensity, it is relationships. (more…)

May 2, 2006

Challenging Love:Siblings

Filed under: India n Me,Most Read,opinions,personal,Random,Relationships — Kaveeta Oberoi Kaul @ 11:33 am
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One has often wondered at the truism of the statement ‘You are your relationships’. An all encompassing canvas here. Includes, marriage partners, partners at work, social acquaintances, friends and siblings.

The other wisecrack that has vindicated itself from ancient times right down to our present is “God gave us our relatives, thank God we can choose our friends”. Cynically true.So the fact that we were born under a particular set of circumstances, with a designated family, extended family, locality, state, nation, is of greater significance than we care to imagine. We can better it (by choosing our friends{wicked smirk}) cannot reverse it. (more…)

April 22, 2006

No Ring – No String

Filed under: marriage,Most Read,Random,Relationships,This Gets To Me — Kaveeta Oberoi Kaul @ 12:06 pm
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I met a girl , couple of days back, at a social do. The usual kind of party where you meet some interesting, some not so, some nice, some not so, some who you take back with you in memories and others who you want to forget the moment they are out of your sight.

She was the former variety, interesting , nice and the fact I am writing about her amounts to the fact that she was memorable. Pretty, in a bizarre sort of way and totally (more…)

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